relationship

is THE portal to a fully-lived life

Whether romantic, familial, platonic or collaborative,

love

can be the single biggest catalyst for growth in your lifetime, if you let it.

Love (with a capital “L”) is an unparalleled transformative experience— it rushes in, unbidden, when babies are born; it’s revealed on our death beds as all that truly matters; its presence (or absence) changes every moment in between.

If there is a central relationship in your life where your deepest insecurities and most painful stories come out to play… congratulations.

You have entered the arena of intimacy.

Showing up to this work takes courage, which is why you are here. It is a conscious choice to exit the path of seeming least resistance — which often includes collapse into laziness, familiar trauma patterns and harmful behavior… woof — and instead choose outrageous love.

And… it is ridiculously worth it.

Turning fully toward the relationship that has chosen you (whether for a season or a lifetime) and squeezing all the medicinal juice from it is a fast-track to the reclamation of aliveness.

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We get wounded in intimacy, so we must heal in intimacy. It can all be alchemized, leaden to gold. This is the opportunity. This is my invitation to you.

WHO THIS IS FOR

couples

Any and all humans who have chosen one another in committed romantic partnership. I work with everyone from long-term hetero-monogamous couples to genderqueer polyamorous nonconformists.

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family or friends

The deep bonds and soul contracts that, while not romantic, are nevertheless karmic. Parent/child, siblings, extended family, exes-transitioning-to-friends, frenemies and soul-level besties are among the pairings I’ve been honored to support.

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collaborators

For humans working together to create, birth, or steward a thing in the world, whether it be a child, a startup or an album. I have helped co-parents make peace and founders hand over their business babies.

I’m Ginny Muir

I am among the most relational beings you will ever meet — the tireless champion of human-to-human possibility on every friend’s speed dial— and I live for beaming this enthusiasm into your dynamic.

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I came in that way, but spent the better part of my early years feeling confused and alone in my desire to cut through the bullshit and just CONNECT with one another.

The completion of my first marriage, over a decade ago, catapulted me into an (obsessive?) study of all things relating: Imago therapy, attachment theory, IFS (”parts work”), trauma resolution and nervous system functionality, all the while following the thread of dynamic polarity teachings rooted in tantra.

Non-violent communication. Adaptive child strategies. The landscape of the erotic. Technologies for rupture and repair. I have accumulated and honed a rich toolkit for activating your connection’s highest potential.

Together we create a safe, neutral space of love and curiosity, eradicate shame and bring truth forward. I work dynamically and in response to the state of your unique partnership.

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I have been called a “relationship psychic,” and it’s true— I can see much of what brought you together and what you’re working through without you “telling” me. It’s part intuition and part pattern recognition— our hearts are not nearly as distinct as we think.

The richest relationships are a blend of intimacy & polarity,
safety & mystery,
sovereignty & togetherness.

I want you to have it all.

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING

RACHAEL MADDOX

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“

Ginny is a fucking god-send. I'm your typical high-achieving, deeply sensitive powerhouse who only wants to work with people who are truly masterful at their craft.

My husband and I had been in (great!) couple's counseling for 4 years. We'd made progress. Improved our communication. Stopped being assholes to each other (mostly). But we still hadn't had the deeper breakthroughs around sex, intimacy, polarity and power that we'd been desperately longing for. In walked Ginny.

We've been working together for 3 months? – and my husband and I have reconnected sexually in a way that feels like a miracle. We've gone to the scariest, truthiest places with Ginny – because she can handle them, hold them, and alchemize them.

As Ginny says, ‘the truth is erotic.’ It's her maxim and her superpower. Helping couples face their hardest, hidden truths, and transforming them into something truly sexy. Go work with Ginny. Don't hesitate. She's worth the investment – and we've made the highest.”

This may be for you if:

Your relationship is in a state of crisis. One (or both) of you is deeply unhappy. There is acute conflict, betrayal or rupture. Perhaps you’re asking: should we stay or should we go?

Moments of crisis require intervention. Allow me to invite you all-in to be with what is. I’ll create safety to sift through the layers of existing conflict and restore understanding. I’ll hold the container for you to leave everything you’ve got on the table so your “what happens next” decision feels mutual, clear, and free from confusion or regrets.

OR

Your relationship is solid(ish), but you’re desiring more. Habitual patterns feel uninspiring and disconnected. There’s a vibrancy you imagine is possible, but getting there feels daunting. You’re afraid to ask for your needs to be met.

We’ll meet this challenge head-on, bringing you into allyship in creating the relationship of your dreams (as opposed to quietly resenting one another for not being more / better / different). Using honesty and creativity, we’ll birth a zesty new iteration of your dynamic. Unwinding what is stale and replacing it with awe for the human sitting in front of you today.

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Here’s how this works:

I call it Alchemy because magic is possible, but not without the deepest attention and time in the laboratory.

This work requires intimacy and consistency to be transformational. With non-sporadic practice, our results take on a quality of awe (trust me… just wait).

There are two paths:

1. Relationship Alchemy (aka “we’re committed”):

Each month, for 6 months minimum, we have three 75-minute sessions on the calendar. Individual or joint, based on your personal needs (a combo of working separately + together highly recommended).
Post-session homework to explore and practices to implement.
Full access to the rich content library of The Lovers Collective, where you can touch in with teachings and lessons on-demand.
I work with 4 couples at a time in this way. When our container completes, you have priority access to extend on a month-to-month basis.
Includes future option to return for specific “tune-ups” throughout your relationship, available only to legacy clients.

2. Relationship Alchemy Intensive (aka “please move in with us”):

This 3-month high-touch containeris for relationships in crisis/intervention moments, those who are obsessed with maximum efficiency, or both.
In addition to everything included in Relationship Alchemy, you get real-time access to me (separately and together) via text and voice messages.
We unwind patterns in real time, share feelings when they’re most alive and nip conflict in the bud before it escalates. No waiting for the next session or stewing in resentment; we make the progress right now.
My most elite offering: I work with only one couple at a time in this way.

RELATIONSHIP ALCHEMY OPTIONS

ONE

Relationship Alchemy

6-months

$1300 USD per month

Or a single payment of $7500 USD

TWO

Relationship Alchemy Intensive

3-months

$2800 USD per month

Or a single payment of $8000 USD

Optional add-on:

In-person Immersion, available only to Mentorship + Relationship Alchemy clients. We’ll get into this on our introductory call.

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Want to get started?

Begin by filling out the no-obligation application below. I mentor a maximum of five relationships at a time, so I’ll respond with availability, timeline and next steps.