The
Lovers Collective
An intimate, game-changing space that includes:
Weekly group coaching calls described as “better than 5 years of relationship therapy”
An online resource library of bite-sized teachings + tools to meet the exact challenge of any moment
A community Telegram text + voice thread for real-time solidarity from epic humans as devotional as you are, plus weekly a-synch Q+A with Ginny
The most affordable way to work with me 1:1 (or 2:1, if you are partnered*), should you decide to upgrade.
*Enrollment includes participation solo or with a partner. You can attend alone; your partner can attend alone; you can attend together.
The miraculous relief of creating the
love, sex & relationships
you’ve always dreamed of.
If you suspect there’s more, when it comes to Love, you’re right.
And you’ve come to the right place.
You know what it feels like to be extraordinarily skillful at something. In fact, there are areas of life where you’re leading and succeeding, in which folks look to YOU to show them how it’s done.
And yet, when it comes to relationship, you’re feeling thwarted.
Stuck, somehow.
Held apart from the cinematic love story of your dreams.
You have not yet unlocked the highest potential of your own heart.
Because beneath and behind it all, you have a heart born to Love.
You yearn for the relationship you have to transform into the relationship you crave.
Or you’re single and determined to exit the patterns that play on repeat, time after agonizing time.
You’ve read the books. Listened to the podcasts. Maybe you’ve even shown up devotedly in therapy for years, and still… the breakthrough has been elusive.
The situation is NOT hopeless; you just can’t see what you can’t see.
Relationship blocks are the MOST complex. Our deepest wounds happen in intimacy, which means they surface in intimacy… because that’s where they must be healed.
And you’re not wrong to be a little obsessed. I think you’re quite wise.
On your death bed, you’ll remember the quality of your relationships. Not wealth, not status, not great real estate, not sexy travel, not even physical health.
Raw, enlivening connection with other human beings is the sauce. And it is, without a doubt, a messy sauce.
Most relationship coaching oversimplifies the extraordinarily nuanced picture, focusing too narrowly on just one aspect. At best, this only gets you so far… at worst, it leaves you straining to override your truth to follow a prescribed template.
I believe: I don’t have to dumb it down for you.
I believe: if you’re really going to heal your relationship wounds, you’re going to have to confront every aspect of your humanity… and I believe you’re up to the task.
I also know when we’re willing to be in this conversation together, dragging our struggles out from behind closed doors, we chip powerfully away at the shame that locks our gnarliest patterns in place.
We are meant to learn from, with and through one another’s stories. You know, relationally.
I’m Ginny Muir
Relational alchemist.
Mycelial witch. Champion of
epic love.
Tender to admit, but it's true:
I nearly gave up on romantic relationship. For 10+ years, I have helped others navigate their relational lives. I coached couples, held court at dinner parties, was consulted on this topic by friends more than any other. I could transform your dating experience, up-level your text game, clean up your shadow with your partner, cheerlead the truth of your love like no one else.
I’ve had many delightful, sexy and intense relationships in my life— and still, two years ago, I found myself forced to admit: I still hadn’t found IT.
It was super tempting to settle for 8-out-of-10 love, if-I-squint-I-could-make-this-look-perfect love. But my soul kept poking me in the ribs and whispering “full fuck yes or bust.”
Unfortunately (lol), I knew the reason I didn’t have the relationship I longed for was me, so I immersed myself fully in the laboratory…
I studied what separates us (trauma, childhood strategies, attachment wounding, nervous system dysregulation, cultural and lineage patterns…) and what brings us back together (conscious conversation, sacred sexuality, nervous system healing, playfulness, ritual, true repair, compassion in action…). I rooted out my own blocks and unwound my trickiest tricks.
Long story short (I’ll save the vivid details for the course content), I married Jesse in January 2025. I chose all-in to an entirely new paradigm of relationship, and the world lit up with mind-blowing potential.
This new paradigm is quite radical. It is revolutionary to our generations of programming. And you don’t get transported there with a fairy-godmother-bop-on-the-head. The price of entry is a lot of unwinding and re-weaving, and a hero’s dose of courageous reps.
It asks so much of us, but it gives even more.
I wholeheartedly believe in this path of epic love, and its availability to all who yearn for it.
If you are ready to step into the new paradigm, I created The Lovers Collective for you.
WHATS INCLUDED
The Lovers Collective is my signature offer— the place where my most cherished teachings converge and we dream a new world, together.
We’ll gather in community to address, explore and build masterful skills in:
Intimacy with Self
What they say is true: you can’t love another more than you love yourself. Let me reintroduce you. I’ll share tools you don’t yet have for working with your unique childhood relational strategies. We’ll dive into neurology (are any of us really “neurotypical”?), design (Human Design / Gene Keys / astrology are all worth noting), and socio-cultural influences. You’ll become intimate with your nervous system (it’s personal). We’ll talk attachment theory in a way you can grasp. The end result? You become the compassionate expert on YOU.
Intimacy with Other
Communication magic (generative conversations where frustration used to be… the power lies with YOU). Frameworks that WORK to dissolve in-the-moment freak-out without lying to yourself or them. Tantric practices — novice-to-advanced— for honest erotic connection. Move from feeling like (or dealing with) a child in relationship to the Holy Grail: adult-to-adult relating. Go from “confused” to “creative” in any situation.
Intimacy with the Mystery
It all falls apart without this: remembering to build a relationship with something larger than you. The universe, the earth, the Divine, the ancestors. I refuse to let you try and hold it all alone, because you were never meant to. I’m not rigid about ideology but I am relentless about dissolving the illusion of hyper-individualism. We need ritual and the natural world; I’ll walk you back there.
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING
Nisha Moodley
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”There are so few people I trust to hold space for the most important aspects of my life. In the realm of relationships (arguably the most important realm of existence), Ginny is a being that I trust profoundly.
Most relationship coaching is void of connection to the mystery, doesn’t hold the full humanity of everyone involved, and lacks connection to some important aspect of relating (sex, the nervous system, the body, conflict, etc). Ginny integrates and flows between all these elements seamlessly, in a way that one can only do when they truly understand the realm they’re teaching in.
So grateful to have been held by Ginny through many of my most important relationship transitions — separation, new partnership, deepening partnership, and more.”
Stevie Greenwell
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“This program helped catalyze my relational nervous system and age her up 20 years so now I can feel fully ME while dating. For so long, my relational self has felt young and “behind” the other parts of my life. This program was like a lock system evening the waters so the version of me that shows up on a date feels aligned and true.
Ginny’s ability to bring insight, depth, humor, and realness is on a WHOLE other level. Her words have become an anchor and a kind whisper as I go into any tricky relational dynamic.
Wow, am I so glad I did this. So much gold! So much transformation! And so much seeing. Ginny continually helps me be the fully expressed adult I want to be in my relational life.”
Bettie Cagle
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“I loved how vulnerable and brave the group was while sharing. I loved hearing we were all experiencing many of the same relational dynamics.
Thanks to this program, I feel confident I have a skill level (and actionable formats!) for situations as they arise. I have a new trust that we CAN work them out. My partner now believes in the power of a group program (that's HUGE). We both feel we have gained resilience for the road ahead and new resources we can draw on again and again.”
Program Features:
Weekly Calls:
Every week, we gather for 90 minutes on Zoom to get into the nitty gritty of relating. Each call will begin with a potent transmission— I’ll hand you a game-changing tool, framework or ideology to rewire the way you relate. Then we’ll open the floor for personalized laser coaching. Bring your burning questions, or learn from others’ asks. Wherever you’re stuck, I’ve got tools to un-stick you.
You’ll have four opportunities every single month to get direct coaching from me. And if you’re feeling shy, show up and someone else might just ask your question for you… because that’s how a synchronous field works. Either way, you’ll leave shifted.
Call recordings will be posted to the course portal within 24 hours, and you’ll have access to them for the duration of your enrollment.
Next 3 months’ calendar (all calls 90 mins):
JULY
Wednesday, July 8, 3:00 pm PT
Monday, July 13, 9:00 am PT
Wednesday, July 22 3:00 pm PT
Monday, July 27 9:00 am PT
AUGUST
Wednesday, Aug 5, 3:00 pm PT
Monday, Aug 10, 9:00 am PT
Wednesday, Aug 19, 3:00 pm PT
Monday, Aug 24, 9:00 am PT
SEPTEMBER
Wednesday, Sept 2, 3:00 pm PT
Wednesday, Sept 9, 3:00 pm PT
Monday, Sept 14, 9:00 am PT
Wednesday, Sept 23, 3:00 pm PT
Content Library:
A treasure trove of bite-sized teachings for you to engage with at any moment. In the midst of a rupture and need a framework for repair? There’s a module on that. Need inspiration to write a spell-casting dating profile? I’ve gotchu. Ready to attempt an entry-level tantric practice with your partner? Head to the course portal, press play, and I’ll guide you through.
Plus: bonus worksheets, playlists and resource recommendations for your ongoing practice.
Community Connection:
Courage, co-regulation and bonus coaching via our (optional) Telegram connection space. That date you asked about on the call? Debrief and get follow-up support. Got a triggering text message? Crowd-source a generative response. Interrupt your temper tantrum reactivity to that special someone, bringing it to the group instead. Share stories, wins, learnings and feedback in real time. Plus, ask questions as they arise for my weekly voice note office hours, where I record audio answer transmissions available to the whole community.
Option for 1:1 (or 2:1) Deeper Dives
Want even more personalized attention on your specific relationship challenge? Upgrade to Tier 2: Collective + Private and receive one 75-minute individual call for yourself (or you and your partner) with me each month.*
*Limited to 10 membership spots per month; first-come, first-served.
Logistics and commitment:
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All genders + all relationship statuses welcome.
Come solo or with a partner. (For those in partnership, cost of enrollment includes both of you; you choose whether you attend sessions alone or together, on the same or different screens).
If you are single when you enroll and want to invite a new partner during your membership, you are encouraged! -
Choose what works for you — attend every call or watch replays. Share vulnerably or listen + learn. You may come early or leave late, as long as you are on video for the time you are present.
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> Confidentiality (nothing shared outside of the container that is not yours to share)
> Presence (please be on video and undistracted during calls you attend live)
> Curiosity (meet the inquiries, experiences and stories of self and others with an open mind), and
> Non-judgment (apply best effort not to project right/wrong, bad/good onto anyone — including self— during calls). -
Minimum commitment is three months, but this collective is ongoing. You can opt in (and out, and in and out) to as many three-month segments as you desire. And I hope you will!
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No refunds after your 3-month commitment begins.
JOIN THE COLLECTIVE
Tier 1
Collective Experience
Tier 2
Collective + Private
Upgrade to include a monthly private session with me
By signing up for The Lovers Collective you are agreeing to these TERMS + CONDITIONS
FAQ
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Absolutely. There's so much overlap in our relational questions. The patterns inside of romantic partnership also exist in the quest to find one. If you're looping in singledom, not sure why your relationships are fizzling, tired of the same old patterns or just ready to step into the dating pool with a whole new level of skills, I gotchu. (Hint: the game of finding love has changed, and if you're not keeping up with the dynamism, you're not giving yourself the best chance to find deep intimacy here).
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I certainly think so. In fact, I pride myself on being one of the best in the biz at bringing the skeptics into the fold, with zero manipulation or condescension. The cost of enrollment includes both of you. They might not be interested in joining at first, but just may get curious when you apply all the magic you’re learning inside your dynamic (results speak for themselves). They can come to as many or as few sessions as they like. TLC is designed to be inclusive and much more approachable than deep-dive couples' coaching can be, and is a great starter place for skeptics.
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For sure. I created the program knowing we have full lives, varying time zones and unique personal schedules. All calls will be recorded and shared within 24 hours to our members’ site, where there will also be a content library of teachings and tools for you to consume at your own pace. On top of that, you have the opportunity to ask questions via voice note at any time in our Telegram thread, to be answered in my weekly office hours.
Think of it as buying a 3-month membership to a gym. Just having the membership is going to make you more likely to go than you would without. If you're serious about shifting your relational reality this year, committing here gives you a 100% better shot.
I trust you'll feel it's an incredible investment even if you make less than half the calls live.
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The group setting is a feature, not a bug. One of the things that most holds us back from transforming relationally is shame — the belief we're somehow "not normal” or unusually “broken.” Community creates the FELT experience that, whatever you're wrestling with, you’re not alone. I'll create a space full of presence, kindness, curiosity and mutual cheerleading. And if you don't feel safe to speak at first, simply listen to me coach others until you do. Participation by witnessing is encouraged and celebrated!
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This is going to be a relatively intimate container, which means you'll have ample opportunity to get direct and personalized guidance from me. I’m capping enrollment at 30, which typically means no more than 20 of us on any given call. (You're not signing up to be merely a number in a sea of 100+ humans, as many online workshops can be.)
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I hope you do! TLC is my ongoing signature offer, open for enrollment at the start of each month. The minimum commitment is three months. After that, you can opt into membership on a month-to-month basis.
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If there’s space. There will be 10 Tier 2 spots available each month. Until those spots are filled, Tier 1 participants can upgrade on a month-by-month basis. If you know you want personalized support, I recommend enrolling in Tier 2 to ensure you’ve got a spot.
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING
Hannah Husband
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“Before joining TLC, I had a sense the things I was struggling with in relationship were perhaps unique failings on my part. Now I feel rooted in an understanding that relationships pull forward our deepest wounds so we have a chance to heal them, and I feel much more confident with my tools for working with those things when they arise.
One of the most affirming aspects has been the gift of hearing others’ shares and the uncanny resonance with my own. Doing this work in community has finally shown me “oh, it’s REALLY not just me; this is what it is to be human!” This relief, plus the combination of depth and levity Ginny brings, has allowed me to come into so much more genuine curiosity inside my own relational journey.
Even when I’m in a hard moment with my partner, I find myself wondering how it’s going to unfold and what I will discover, which is so much more enjoyable than the self-blame and shame spiral that was my default before.”
Cora Poage
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”I can't say enough about TLC and the impact it’s had on my life. Ginny is in her Zone of Genius; so often I am sitting back in awe, watching her speak from the wisdom, depth, and love of someone LIVING their Sacred Purpose.
The structure for this group is potent. No matter who is sharing, there is mirroring, learning, growth. I adore listening as much as I do sharing. It's all healing and transformational. And the mix of male, female, non-binary, couples, singles, poly etc is AWESOME. I love the diversity and variety.
I want the calls to go on and on for hours. That would be my one recommended change: can they be at least twice as long? (lol)
I recommend TLC to anyone who wants to have a more powerful and loving relationship with yourself, the divine nature of life and others. Your future, present, and past selves with thank you!. One call alone is worth the monthly investment… easily.”
Tia
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“My husband and I have a baby and another on the way. Our lives are full! Sometimes I attended calls alone, sometimes he attended alone, sometimes we joined together. We both watched call recordings and talked about them, which gave us a new shared language in our relationship.
I loved the level of awareness and emotional maturity from everyone in this program. It was so nice to be around / listen to a group of people so interested in being better at relationships and sharing their stuff so openly and honestly. I don’t have so many places in my life to share in this way, and it has made me braver. I have much more courage to find and speak up about my truth, and I know this practice will make a big difference to me and my relationships.”
Catherine Cakir
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“I’m learning so much about relating in this group; sometimes I feel like such a baby on this journey— almost 40 and only now understanding what healthy adult connection can look like!
I’m still single, but with a deeper understanding of the work it takes to be in a good, strong relationship. A reverance for clear, honest, heart-centered communication and feedback between people.
Through this group, I’ve begun to recognize how deeply my ways of relating were shaped by childhood patterns, and what it will take to grow into the version of myself capable of the love and connection I long for. Seeing others walk the path ahead of me has been inspiring.
I can’t say thank you enough - it’s been truly life-changing.”