The Lovers Collective

Three-month laboratory. Weekly group coaching. A rich library of relational tools, teachings and practices. An opportunity for private focused support.

Community connection for stepping into a new paradigm of relationship, together.

The miraculous relief of creating the love, sex and relationships you’ve always dreamed of.

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You know what it feels like to be extraordinarily skillful at something. In fact, there are areas of life where you’re leading and succeeding, in which folks look to YOU to show them how it’s done.

And yet, when it comes to relationship, you’re feeling thwarted.

Blocked.

Held apart from the cinematic love story of your dreams.

You have not yet unlocked the highest potential of your own heart.

Because beneath and behind it all, you have a heart born to Love.

You yearn for the relationship you have to transform into the relationship you crave.

Or you’re single and determined to exit the patterns that play on repeat, time after agonizing time.

You’ve read the books. Listened to the podcasts. You’ve even shown up devotedly in therapy for years, and still… the breakthrough has been elusive.

You’re not hopeless and you’re not broken, you just can’t see what you can’t see.

Relationship blocks are the most complex there are. Our deepest wounds happen in intimacy, which means they surface in intimacy… because that’s where they must be healed.

And you’re not wrong to be a little obsessed. I think you’re quite wise.

On your death bed, you’ll remember the quality of your relationships. Not wealth, not status, not great real estate, not sexy travel, not even physical health.

Raw, enlivening connection with other human beings is the sauce. And it is, without a doubt, a messy sauce.

Most relationship coaching oversimplifies the extraordinarily nuanced picture, focusing too narrowly on just one aspect. At best, this only gets you so far… at worst, it leaves you straining to override your truth to follow a prescribed template.

I believe: I don’t have to dumb it down for you.

I believe: if you’re really going to heal your relationship wounds, you’re going to have to confront every aspect of your humanity… and I believe you’re up to the task.

I also know when we’re willing to be in this conversation together, dragging our struggles out from behind closed doors, we chip powerfully away at the shame that locks our gnarliest patterns in place.

We are meant to learn from, with and through one another’s stories. You know, relationally.

I’m Ginny Muir

Relational alchemist.
Mycelial witch. Champion of
epic love.

Tender to admit, but it's true:

I nearly gave up on romantic relationship. For over ten years, I have helped others navigate their relational lives. I coached couples, held court at dinner parties, was consulted on this topic by friends more frequently than any other. I could transform your dating experience, up-level your text game, clean up your shadow with your partner, cheerlead the truth of your love like no one else.

I’ve had many delightful, sexy and intense relationships in my life— and still, two years ago, I found myself forced to admit: I still hadn’t found IT.

It was super tempting to settle for 8-out-of-10 love, if-I-squint-I-could-make-this-look-perfect love. But my soul kept poking me in the ribs and whispering “full fuck yes or bust.”

Unfortunately (lol), I knew the reason I didn’t have the relationship I longed for was me, so I immersed myself fully in the laboratory..

I studied what separates us (trauma, childhood strategies, attachment wounding, nervous system dysregulation, cultural and lineage patterns…) and what brings us back together (conscious conversation, polarity practice, sacred sexuality, nervous system healing, playfulness, ritual, true repair, compassion in action…). I rooted out my own blocks and unwound my trickiest tricks.

Long story short (there is so much more to tell, but I’ll save it for the course content), I married Jesse in January 2025. I chose all-in to an entirely new paradigm of relationship, and the world lit up with mind-blowing potential.

This new paradigm is quite radical. It is revolutionary to our generations of programming. And you don’t get transported there with a fairy-godmother-bop-on-the-head. The price of entry is a lot of unwinding and re-weaving, and a hero’s dose of courageous reps.

It asks so much of us, but it gives even more.

I wholeheartedly believe in this path of epic love, and its availability to all who yearn for it. If you are ready to step into the new paradigm, I created The Lovers’ Collective for you.

Intimacy with Other

Communication MAGIC, foolproof frameworks, pathways to authentic erotic expression, and priceless hacks for navigating relational terrain with all other humans. Go from “confused” to “creative” in any situation.

What’s Included

The Lovers’ Collective is my signature offer— the place where my most cherished teachings converge and we dream a new world, together. We’ll gather in community to address, explore and build masterful skills in:

Intimacy with Self

Transformative tools you don’t yet have for knowing, including and revealing the precious essence of who you are. What they say is true: you can’t love another more than you love yourself. Let me reintroduce you.

Intimacy with the Mystery

It all falls apart without this: remembering to build a relationship with something larger than you. The universe, the earth, the Divine, the ancestors. You were never meant to hold it all alone, and you can’t be held by a vague concept. I’ll walk you back there.

  • “Ginny is one of those rare gems where I can find precious refuge, a true sister who offers clear, trustworthy, surgically precise vision and soul-deep love in my lowest (and highest) moments. She is who I come to when I need SIGHT… When I need support to release my sorrows and untangle my mental knots. Being held by her is like falling into the arms of your oldest and dearest friend, one who you’ve known across lifetimes and who can simultaneously revel with you at the church of Erotic Aliveness—AKA LIFE—and walk with you carrying a lantern into the darkest depths of grief’s hellscape. She is the first person on my invite list to the funerals I’ve held for my former selves.”

    -Lola Pickett

  • “Working with Ginny has altered the way I navigate transformation… and LIFE. I can’t imagine getting through the last two years of extreme transition without her. I met her when I was in the midst of deciding whether or not to get divorced — honestly in agony about whether or not to leave a marriage that was beautiful in many ways. She spoke to my soul in that place, and gave me the courage to move forward with clarity into a life that is so, so much more fulfilling and true.”

    -Dani O’Brien Buckley

How it unfolds:

Weekly Calls:

Every week, we gather for 90 minutes on Zoom to get into the nitty gritty of relating. Each call will begin with a potent transmission— I’ll hand you a game-changing tool, framework or ideology to rewire the way you relate. Then we’ll open the floor for personalized laser coaching. Bring your burning questions, or learn from others’ asks. Wherever you’re stuck, I’ve got tools to un-stick you.

You’ll have four opportunities every single month to get direct coaching from me. And if you’re feeling shy, show up and someone else might just ask your question for you… because that’s how a synchronous field works. Either way, you’ll leave shifted.

Call recordings will be posted to the course portal within 24 hours, and you’ll have access to them for the duration of your enrollment.

First 3 months’ calendar (all calls 90 mins):

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Content Library:

A treasure trove of bite-sized teachings for you to engage with at any moment. In the midst of a rupture and need a framework for repair? There’s a module on that. Need inspiration to write a spell-casting dating profile? I’ve gotchu. Ready to attempt an entry-level tantric practice with your partner? Head to the course portal, press play, and I’ll guide you through.

Plus: bonus worksheets, playlists and resource recommendations for your ongoing practice.

Community Connection:

When opting into a new paradigm, you’ll need voices championing your experiments so you don’t get distracted by the muddy messages out in the world at large. In our (optional) WhatsApp connection space, you’ll receive in-the-moment courage and co-regulation. A place to share stories, wins, follow-up learnings and questions in real time. A chance to offer feedback to one another and flex your new relational leadership muscles.

Option for 1:1 (or 2:1) Deeper Dives

Want even more personalized attention on your specific relationship challenge? Upgrade to Tier 2 and receive one 75-minute individual call for yourself (or you and your partner) with me each month.

Logistics and commitment:

  • All genders + all relationship statuses welcome. Come solo or with a partner. (For those in partnership, cost of enrollment includes both of you).

  • Choose what works for you — attend every call or watch replays. Share vulnerably or listen + learn.

  • confidentiality, presence (please be on video and undistracted during calls you attend), curiosity, and non-judgment.

  • Minimum commitment is three months, but this collective is ongoing. You can opt in (and out, and in and out) to as many three-month segments as you desire. And I hope you will!

  • No refunds after your 3-month commitment begins.

Tier 1

$400 USD per month

Or a single payment of $1100 USD

Tier 2

Upgrade to include a monthly private session with me

$800 USD per month

Or a single payment of $2300 USD